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This weeks blog Q&A Wednesday comes from one of our female members. It is a perfect example of how ManneroftheMonth.com works to help its members in everyday situations with real life questions…take a look!
Q: I have been invited to a large professional dinner party to celebrate a significant event. The dress code is “office chic.” Can you shed some light on this?
Answer: Absolutely, I can see where this is a bit confusing…Traditionally, noting the attire was supposed to give a clear understanding of what to wear. Unfortunately the more creative we become with the description, the less direction we provide our guests.
To desipher this attire code let’s start by breaking down the words.
Office attire: Speaks for itself, you know the dress code/climate of your office. If you are invited as a guest ask those working for the company, both men and women, for some insights.
“Chic” is the curve ball. Chic is defined by words such as fashionable, modish, trendy, smart (my favorite), and tasteful.
Cracking the Code: I believe this invitation is trying to communicate that although it’s a professional party they want to “mode” it up a bit. My suggestion would be to start with what you wear to work: leaving the cardigan or suit jacket at home, switch out your pumps for heels and pearls for beads, and let your hair down! Don’t, plunge your neckline or hike up your skirt–not that I think you would do this, just in case you get a whim– as flaunting what your mama gave you is neither professional nor chic!
My advice for any host or hostess is to save “clever” for the party’s theme, decorations and favors. Do your guests a favor and keep your attire line straight forward and traditional.
Current and Upcoming Manners:
- February’s Manner: Dining In is available until March 15
- March’s Manner: Tips for Travel–Looking into Lodging
- April’s Manner: What to Wear? A simple guide to always know what’s appropriate from casual to white tie…